The way I now view bad beats , is I compare them to the number of times I won in marginal situations. And I now realise that the times when I had wins with marginal hands etc(ie often  when I had  calls but no raisers in the BB)outnumber the Bad beats . Although the bad beats often mean the end of a tourney for me. Like everyone else I believe my Bad Beats are more and much worse than anyone else's.