i was(am) the type of player that would curse the bad beats and the players that played them agaisnt me.it was the dealer, it was the poker gods, it was the DNA of the villian.....you name it any excuse as long as it was not my fault was used.i am too good to to be the cause of this. Epiphany time-any bad beat is my fault i have come to believe,i chose to put the chips in therefore i am resonsible, nothing else.poker is a game, not life and death if one treats it as such one should get some help.thank you to PSO and mainly the group in the monthly tournies for showing me this hole in my game and my personality. my 2014 goal is to be less of an whiner and more of class act. may slip a time or two if so please feel free to refer me to my blog.ty